Having boyfriend/girlfriend helps student learning

Boyfriend/girlfriend is a favorite topic in teenager. Sometime if the one of them have not boyfriend/girlfriend yet it called “cupu”. There are several reasons from the people who agree on this statement but there are several people who didn’t agree on it.

In my opinion there are several reasons about agree and disagree on it. For the first reason that makes me agree on it is….having a boyfriend for me is important enough because I feel safe and comfortable when I belong with him. In that case I feel happy because any some special body who loves me and think of me so that I feel more be spirit with all of my activity.

My boyfriend always supports me about positive activity that I do. Perhaps, in his mind positive activity like learning in group, UKM, and the others can give me more experience not only in social relation but also in my learning can more be better became of it.

When I have problems with my learning, my friends or my family it will make me down. If I feel down it can give bad effects for my learning absolutely. So here I’m sharing all of my problems with my boyfriend but I must have some limitation about my family. Sometime he is always gives me advice and perhaps he is also directly helps me to solve my problems. Only he the only one who want to hear all of my moan and complain, my crying and laughing.

But, there are several bad effects from having boyfriend. Sometime a relationship is impossible that there is no misunderstanding both him and me. Maybe what I want is not suitable with what he want, what I mean is not match with what he mean. It so confiscates my time.

I think my problem is not as simple as I say above. My parent especially my mother doesn’t permit me to love him even I have kept my relationship for two years. And I have loved him very much. But I can do nothing.